A pocket guide to what to say and do in any moment.
- Grow their curiosity and imagination
- Spark early reading, numbers and logic
- Guide them calmly through hard moments
Three conversation prompts from the app
The words to say in a real moment, and why they help your child.
- 10–13 months · Floor play
I'm sleeping... snore!
Why this mattersYour baby gets an early taste of pretend play. Waking up when they touch you lets them join in.
- 13–18 months · Bath time
Find the same one
Why this mattersYour toddler learns to spot when two things match. Waiting while they find the pair lets them do the looking.
- 18–24 months · Going out
Five more minutes, then home
Why this mattersYour toddler learns to leave fun more easily with a warning. Picking the last turn gives them a say.
An idea to try with your child every day
Your child changes from week to week, and so do the moments you need ideas for. Each day Nara suggests a conversation prompt for their age, with when it fits, what to try and the words to say. Save it for later, or scroll for more.
Help your child with the skills they’re building now
Pick a skill, like early literacy or logic and numbers, to see what your child is learning right now and find ideas for it. Or switch to moments, like story time or bath time, for ideas that fit your day.
Pointing becomes a powerful tool, and frustration may rise when your baby knows what they want but cannot yet say it. Shyness around unfamiliar people is also common.
Respond to gestures as if they are words. When your baby points or shows you something, name it and talk about it briefly. This turns gestures into early conversations.
Gestures, sounds, and understanding begin working together. Your baby may reach, wave, show, give, or point while looking between you and an interesting object. They increasingly understand familiar words and simple social routines.
Your baby shows you things, copies your actions, and seeks you out for help or comfort. These gestures are early signs of sharing attention and wanting to be social.
Pointing becomes a powerful tool, and frustration may rise when your baby knows what they want but cannot yet say it. Shyness around unfamiliar people is also common.
Respond to gestures as if they are words. When your baby points or shows you something, name it and talk about it briefly. This turns gestures into early conversations.
Find out why they’re doing that
Open your child’s stage to see what’s typical right now and what helps. Around their first birthday, for example, frustration often rises when they know what they want but can’t say it yet.
Pointing becomes a powerful tool, and frustration may rise when your baby knows what they want but cannot yet say it. Shyness around unfamiliar people is also common.
Respond to gestures as if they are words. When your baby points or shows you something, name it and talk about it briefly. This turns gestures into early conversations.
Observe typical speech, communication and interaction behaviors. View sources
Track each new skill as it shows up
Check off milestones like pointing and copying sounds as you see them, and see which ones usually come next. Each stage’s list follows CDC and ASHA guidance.
Nara is educational and doesn’t assess or diagnose. If you’re worried, talk to your child’s doctor.
What each age brings
Prenatal
Before birthYour voice, songs and rhythms can become familiar before birth
Connection Seeker
0–4 monthsComfort, faces, coos and the first back-and-forth
Sound Maker
4–7 monthsLaughter, sound turns and exploring with hands and mouth
Babbler
7–10 monthsBabble, hide-and-find games, turn-taking and new shyness
Gesture Communicator
10–13 monthsPointing, first words, copy-me games and learning “no”
Words Explorer
13–18 monthsNew words, simple choices, helping and copying everyday jobs
Talker
18–24 monthsTwo-word phrases, taking turns, pretend play and naming feelings
Phrase Builder
24–36 monthsShort sentences, “why?”, number words, pretend play and “me do it”
Storyteller
36–48 monthsStories, rhymes, games with rules and talking about feelings
Based on advice from the CDC, pediatricians and speech therapists
Advice online often disagrees. Everything in Nara is based on published guidance and research, including from these organizations.
- CDC Learn the Signs. Act Early.
- American Speech-Language-Hearing Association
- American Academy of Pediatrics
- NHS Start for Life
- Zero to Three
- Harvard Center on the Developing Child
Independent sources. Listing them doesn’t imply affiliation with or endorsement of Nara.
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